Ugh, just got out of a debate class where this guy was trying to argue that 'ethical non-monogamy' is just a fancy term for being a selfish asshole. Like, I get the philosophical arguments, but Jesus Christ, have some fucking self-awareness. If you're just trying to justify wanting to fuck multiple people without consequences, just own it. Don't wrap it in this bullshit intellectual blanket. It's not about the act, it's about the fucking hypocrisy. I'd respect you more if you just said 'my dick wants variety' instead of pretending you're some enlightened polyamorous guru. Fucking posers.